Have coffee like a Champion…

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It was a breezy evening as Alex sat across from Clara at a small café tucked into the corner of a bustling street. Their conversation flowed easily, though Alex could feel the weight of wanting to make a real impression. He didn’t just want to charm Clara with surface-level banter; he wanted her to walk away feeling like she’d been truly seen, truly known.

Alex took a sip of his coffee, gathered his thoughts, and leaned in slightly. “Can I ask you something? It’s a little different, but it’s something I think helps me understand people better.”

Clara smiled, intrigued. “Of course.”

“What is it about your story that I need to know so I can really understand who you are?” he asked.

For a moment, Clara blinked, surprised by the depth of the question. She wasn’t used to being asked something so thoughtful—most first dates revolved around the same tired questions: *What do you do for work? What’s your favorite food?* But this felt different. She took a deep breath, her smile softening as she considered her answer.

“Well,” she began, her voice quieter now, “I guess you should know that I moved here after my mom passed away. It was a tough decision, but it forced me to grow in ways I never imagined. I’d always played it safe, but that moment made me realize how important it is to take risks.”

Alex listened intently, nodding, his eyes never leaving hers. “That’s really brave,” he said. “It sounds like you’ve had to dig deep to figure out what really matters to you.”

Clara’s eyes sparkled, not with tears but with appreciation. She felt understood, and it was something she hadn’t realized she’d been craving.

A little later, as they shared a dessert, Alex asked another question, this time with a more casual tone. “So, what in life moves you the most?”

Clara tilted her head thoughtfully, resting her chin on her hand. “You mean, like what inspires me?”

“Yeah,” Alex replied. “Or what excites you, or even what scares you. However you interpret it.”

She laughed softly. “Well, I think I’m most moved by seeing people genuinely connect. I love moments where you can tell someone feels truly understood. It’s why I became a therapist, honestly. There’s nothing like watching someone have an ‘aha’ moment about their own life.”

“That’s amazing,” Alex said, his admiration clear. “It sounds like you’ve built your life around helping others feel seen.”

“And what about you?” Clara countered. “What moves you?”

“Honestly? Conversations like this,” Alex said with a grin. “Getting to know someone on a level that goes beyond the usual stuff.”

By the time the waiter came with the check, Clara felt like she’d been on an emotional journey, not just a date. She hadn’t just been asked to talk about her job or her hobbies—Alex had invited her to share her essence.

As they stood to leave, Alex turned to her with one final question. “If someone asked you what makes you valuable, what would you say?”

Clara paused, genuinely taken aback. “Wow, no one’s ever asked me that before,” she admitted. “I guess… it would be my ability to empathize. I’ve always been able to put myself in other people’s shoes and help them feel like they’re not alone.”

“That’s an incredible quality,” Alex said. “It’s something not everyone has, and it’s something I can already tell makes you pretty remarkable.”

They walked out together, Clara feeling lighter, seen, and cherished. For the first time in a long while, she felt excited about the potential of this connection. Alex wasn’t just another man asking shallow questions—he was someone who made her feel like her story mattered.

As she smiled to herself, Alex glanced at her and thought, *This is exactly what I wanted. To make her feel like the incredible person she is.*

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