Beyond the Brain:

The Self, Consciousness, and the Cosmic Connection

Back in the day, if you asked a man where his self was, he’d slap his forehead and say, “Right here, partner.” If you asked him again, he might point to his heart and tell you “Or maybe right here, where I feel things.” But if you kept on asking, pretty soon he’d tell you to go mind your own business. Now, in these modern times, science has come along, poked at the brain, prodded the heart, and even taken a microscope to the gut, only to find out—well, that fellow might not have been entirely wrong. Turns out, … Continue readingBeyond the Brain:

The Self, Consciousness, and the Cosmic Connection

DAY. 36 – Your Mindset Determines

Your Reality

“Reality is a dream—make sure you’re the one writing it.” Life isn’t about what you see—it’s about how you see it. The lens you choose determines the reality you experience. If you see obstacles, you’ll find them. If you see opportunities, they’ll appear. The way you think shapes your world. If you believe you’re capable, you’ll find solutions. If you believe you’re a victim, you’ll find excuses. Train your mind to see opportunities, focus on growth, and reject limiting beliefs. In AI science, the Turing Test suggests that if something looks and behaves like it’s real, we accept it … Continue readingDAY. 36 – Your Mindset Determines

Your Reality

The Six-Minute Window:

Why the Risk of Nuclear War is Closer Than We Think

I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.” – Albert Einstein   A Crisis Hidden in Plain Sight In today’s world, news cycles move at lightning speed. Even discussions about World War III come and go with concerning casualness. Despite the very real threat of nuclear war, most people remain emotionally disconnected from it. We can vividly picture a child falling into a well, but we struggle to grasp the abstract danger of global annihilation—even if the probability were 30% or higher. Nuclear war, … Continue readingThe Six-Minute Window:

Why the Risk of Nuclear War is Closer Than We Think

War Happens, and War is Trauma – The Looming Shadow of WW3

If there’s one thing history teaches us, it’s that humans have two great talents: making fire and making war. The first, we use to warm our homes; the second, to burn them down. Every generation thinks it has figured out how to end war, and every generation proves itself wrong. You see, war happens. It always has, and if human nature doesn’t change, it always will. It starts with fine speeches, noble causes, and a flag waving in the wind. It ends with broken bodies, ruined cities, and a whole lot of folks wondering what the fine speeches were … Continue readingWar Happens, and War is Trauma – The Looming Shadow of WW3

The Real Reason The Boeing Starliner Failed – VIDEO

A  Sad Story….  Video is below… we worth watching. Outline below for you. Boeing’s Aerospace Legacy and Decline Boeing was once a premier aerospace company trusted by NASA for decades. The company’s culture shifted after acquiring McDonnell Douglas in 1997, prioritizing cost-cutting and shareholder profits over engineering excellence and safety. Development of the Starliner NASA funded Starliner’s development in 2010 under the Commercial Crew Program. Boeing received significantly more funding ($4.2 billion) than SpaceX ($2.6 billion) but struggled with delays and technical failures. Starliner’s Design and Technical Issues Starliner features 52 thrusters for maneuverability, but their complexity introduces multiple … Continue readingThe Real Reason The Boeing Starliner Failed – VIDEO

Diplomacy – the Fine Art of Pretending and when the pretending is over – WAR

There is a Thin Line Between Diplomacy, Cold War, and Hot War In diplomacy, you like cats, but your neighbor doesn’t. To keep the peace, you pretend not to feed the stray cats, and you even tell them how cute their mongrel is. You’re being nice, hoping they’ll be nice to you in return. That’s diplomacy. War, is when they run over your cat, and you poison their dog. At this point, the sky is limit at what could happen, unless someone calls the police. If there’s one thing history teaches us, it’s that people will do just about … Continue readingDiplomacy – the Fine Art of Pretending and when the pretending is over – WAR

DAY. 34 – Master the Art of Communication—

It’s a Superpower

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in life, it’s that most problems come down to bad communication. Nations go to war, marriages fall apart, and businesses crumble—all because someone said the wrong thing, or worse, said nothing at all. You’d think, after thousands of years of talking to one another, we’d have it all figured out. But no, we still fumble our words, trip over our own tongues, and wonder why people don’t understand us. The truth is, communication is like a good joke—timing, delivery, and clarity make all the difference. Say the right thing the wrong way, and … Continue readingDAY. 34 – Master the Art of Communication—

It’s a Superpower

Shadow Doctrine and Moral Flexibility

Jack Calloway sat in a dimly lit classroom at The Farm, the CIA’s legendary training ground. The air smelled faintly of coffee and gun oil, the usual perfume of the place. Instructors took turns briefing the recruits on covert operations, their voices even and deliberate, the kind of tone used by men who had seen too much and felt too little. Today’s lesson: Title 50 and Moral Flexibility. At the front of the room, an instructor—a former case officer with eyes like steel—tapped the whiteboard. “There’s an old saying that when diplomacy fails, and war is too messy, the … Continue readingShadow Doctrine and Moral Flexibility

DAY. 33 – Learn to Listen

More Than You Speak

“If we were meant to talk more than listen, we would have two mouths and one ear. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.” – YNOT The truth is, the world already has enough talkers, and the ones who know how to listen stand out like a lighthouse in a storm. So do yourself a favor—listen more, talk less, and watch how much further that gets you. Most people listen just enough to reload their next argument, not to understand. And that’s a crying shame, because listening – really listening … Continue readingDAY. 33 – Learn to Listen

More Than You Speak

Perception and Uncertainty:

How We See the Unknown

“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.” – William G.T. Shedd Now, folks, let me tell you something about life—it ain’t meant to be spent sittin’ on the porch, rocking back and forth, waiting for the wind to blow you somewhere interesting. No sir, life’s a river, fast and unpredictable, and the poor fool who tries to keep his boat tied to the dock forever is liable to rot before he ever gets wet. The trouble with people is they’re so downright scared of uncertainty, they’d rather stick to a miserable certainty than … Continue readingPerception and Uncertainty:

How We See the Unknown

Income vs. Net Worth:

The Real Game of Wealth and Taxes

Most folks spend their lives chasing income, believing that the more they make, the richer they’ll be. But the ultra-wealthy play a different game altogether. They don’t chase income; they build net worth. And the best part? They do it while sidestepping the tax bill that weighs down the rest of us. Take Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, or Donald Trump—billionaires who can legally pay little to no income taxes. How? They don’t have taxable income in the way most people do. Instead of earning wages, they let their assets grow unrealized—avoiding taxes while still living like kings. Income vs. … Continue readingIncome vs. Net Worth:

The Real Game of Wealth and Taxes

I dream of Jeanie, the lotto,

and early retirement

The American Dream and Other Fantasies Back in the days when people had time to sit on porches and spin tall tales, there was always that one fella who claimed he’d figured out the secret to getting rich. Usually, his plan involved either a magic lamp, an inheritance from a mysterious uncle in the Old World, or—more commonly—winning the lottery. As history has shown, most of these plans had about as much substance as a politician’s promise. Yet, here we are, still dreaming of easy riches, of a life spent in leisure rather than in the daily grind. We … Continue readingI dream of Jeanie, the lotto,

and early retirement

Your Own Business –

The American Dream – and TAXES

As I lean back in me chair, and tell you that the only things certain in life are death, taxes, and the never-ending itch of a man wanting to be his own boss, most people know what I am going to tell you but will never do anything about it. The land of opportunity has always been fertile ground for the ambitious, the risk-takers, and the downright stubborn. No one ever got rich working for someone else—well, except maybe in Silicon Valley, but we’ll get to that later. It’s the great American Dream, after all. Many dream of owning … Continue readingYour Own Business –

The American Dream – and TAXES

Day. 32 – Don’t Compare Yourself to Others—

Run Your Own Race

  “Comparison is the thief of joy,” And if that’s true, then today’s world is one big heist. Everywhere you turn, someone’s got a shinier success story, a bigger house, or a fancier vacation spot. You weren’t put on this earth to measure your worth against someone else’s highlight reel. You were put here to run your own race—preferably without tripping over someone else’s finish line. I don’t want a Ferrari, a Bugatti, a 20,000 sq ft house, a fleet of yachts, or a million YouTube views. I just want to drive a normal car to the grocery store … Continue readingDay. 32 – Don’t Compare Yourself to Others—

Run Your Own Race

Day. 31 – Your Network is Your Net Worth—Build Meaningful Relationships

Success isn’t just about what you know; it’s also about who you know. Surround yourself with people who inspire and challenge you. Build strong connections, nurture relationships, and always provide value to others. The right network can open doors you never even knew existed. No matter your business or venture, you need a team. You can’t do everything yourself, even if you have all the knowledge. You also need feedback, especially from those who disagree with you—that’s how you cover all your bases and make well-informed decisions. Whether you’re the President of the United States, a real estate investor, … Continue readingDay. 31 – Your Network is Your Net Worth—Build Meaningful Relationships

DAY TRADING – Making thousands with the click of a mouse or NOT

Ladies and gentlemen, gather ’round, and let me tell you a tale from my million-dollar education—an education not earned in the hallowed halls of academia, but forged in the wild, unforgiving jungle of the stock market. It is a story of speed, stress, and speculation, where fortunes can be made and lost in the blink of an eye. And if I may be so bold, it is also a cautionary tale. The difference in technology between the 1980s and the 2000s is nothing short of breathtaking. In the 1980s, when I placed an order with a brokerage firm via … Continue readingDAY TRADING – Making thousands with the click of a mouse or NOT

But what about BONDS –

Wanna take some IOU’s

There is something peculiar about human nature, and that is our undying enthusiasm for getting something for nothing—except, of course, when we do get nothing for something. The latter predicament often rears its head in the world of bonds, where an investor, brimming with confidence, shakes hands with an issuer, exchanging hard-earned dollars today for the promise of more tomorrow. Now, a promise is only as good as the person making it, and history has taught us that some promises are written in ink, while others are drawn in disappearing ink. Bonds: The Polished IOUs of the Financial World … Continue readingBut what about BONDS –

Wanna take some IOU’s

DAY. 30 – Don’t Wait for

“the Perfect Time”—

It Will Never Come

“Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” – Mark Twain Don’t Wait for the “Perfect Time”—It Will Never Come There will always be excuses, obstacles, and reasons to delay. If you wait for the perfect moment, you may never take that first step. The truth is, perfection is an illusion, and waiting for it only leads to stagnation. “Do not wait to strike … Continue readingDAY. 30 – Don’t Wait for

“the Perfect Time”—

It Will Never Come

The Higher the Risk –

The Higher the Reward

Back in the day, a fellow could stash his money under a mattress and sleep easy. No market crashes, no bankers speculating with his hard-earned savings, no fancy terms like “diversification” or “hedging.” Just a good night’s rest on top of a lumpy fortune. But times have changed, and so has the art of making – and losing – money. Nowadays, you can double your money overnight, or lose it all before breakfast, depending on whether you believe the right salesman. But if there’s one thing that hasn’t changed, it’s this: If someone promises you easy money, you’d best … Continue readingThe Higher the Risk –

The Higher the Reward

The Time Value of Money

Back in my day—before people started worrying about their cholesterol and before a dollar had the lifespan of a mayfly—you could get yourself a soda for a dime, a brand-new car for a couple thousand, and a house for ten grand if you didn’t mind a little elbow grease.  That was the prices when I was a kid. These days, the same things will set you back thirty  times as much, and yet, curiously, nothing has changed. The numbers got bigger, but the dance stayed the same. It’s like the tide—coming in and going out—always settling back where it … Continue readingThe Time Value of Money

Real Estate in 2025: A Market Correction or a Golden Opportunity?

The real estate market in 2025 is shaping up to be one of the most significant shifts in years. After a period of high home prices and rising interest rates, we’re now seeing the potential for a 20-30% drop in home values in many areas. For homebuyers, investors, and sellers, this isn’t just a downturn—it’s an opportunity. If you know how to play the market right, 2025 could be the year you buy low, invest smart, and secure long-term wealth. Why Home Prices May Drop 20-30% in 2025 A combination of economic factors, interest rates, and supply-demand shifts is … Continue readingReal Estate in 2025: A Market Correction or a Golden Opportunity?

How to Buy a Home and Avoid Costly Mistakes

Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions you’ll ever make. It’s not just about finding the right house—it’s about making smart financial moves to ensure you don’t overpay, get trapped by rising costs, or fall victim to hidden expenses. I’ve bought and sold over 20 homes in my life, and I’ve learned that most people focus too much on the wrong things—like the list price—when the real money is made (or lost) in the negotiation, financing, taxes, and insurance. If you’re looking to buy a home the right way, here’s everything you need to know. Step … Continue readingHow to Buy a Home and Avoid Costly Mistakes

Day. 29 – Keep Your Word—

Integrity is Everything

“You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you cannot fool all of the people all of the time.” “If you build a business on lies, eventually the truth will come to collect.” “A dishonest man may make a fortune, but he’ll never keep it—because sooner or later, his lies will bankrupt him faster than any debt ever could.” Your reputation is built on trust, and trust is built on keeping your word. If you say you’ll do something, do it. If you make a commitment, … Continue readingDay. 29 – Keep Your Word—

Integrity is Everything

Home Ownership vs Real Estate as an Investment

Now, I ain’t saying real estate’s a bad idea, not at all, but don’t fall into the trap that all real estate is good either, some are a lot better than others.  They hear “investment” and think they’ve struck gold, but more often than not, they’ve just bought themselves a money pit with pretty curtains. A house ain’t a treasure chest—it can be a leaky bucket, and if you are not careful, you’ll spend your life plugging holes with dollar bills. Now, don’t get me wrong, there’s money to be made in real estate, but it isn’t where most … Continue readingHome Ownership vs Real Estate as an Investment

STOP WASTING TIME –

MAKE A MONEY MACHINE INSTEAD

DONT’ WASTE YOUR TIME DOING THESE 3 THINGS…. and I will share the solution at the end. PROBLEM 1 : The Box of Mixed Screws, the Business Databases At the start, you have a clean, organized set of data — much like when you first buy a new box of screws. Everything is in its place, labeled, and ready to use. Every piece of data (like every screw) has a clear purpose and fits neatly into the system. But over time, things happen: Urgent requests lead to haphazard data entry. Data from different systems gets merged inconsistently. Temporary tables, quick … Continue readingSTOP WASTING TIME –

MAKE A MONEY MACHINE INSTEAD

DAY. 28 – Take Care of Your Mental and Physical Health—

You Only Get One Body and Mind

“We spend our lives chasing riches, then spend those riches trying to live longer—only to realize we did neither.” Dalai Lama   Your body and mind are the foundation of everything you do. If you neglect them, they will eventually fail you. Taking care of yourself isn’t just about looking good—it’s about longevity, energy, and quality of life. The Cost of Neglect Many people don’t realize the true value of their health until it starts to fade. No one, when they get older, ever wishes they had eaten worse, ignored their teeth, or neglected their hearing and vision. Instead, … Continue readingDAY. 28 – Take Care of Your Mental and Physical Health—

You Only Get One Body and Mind

Is Elon Musk Evil? –

The Billionaire’s Paradox

Well now, if there’s one thing people love, it’s picking a side. They’ll argue over just about anything—dogs vs. cats, coffee vs. tea, and whether a billionaire sleeping in a factory is a genius or just a rich man who forgot where his bed is. And right in the middle of all that fussing and feuding sits Elon Musk, a man half the world thinks is a hero and the other half swears is the devil himself, almost as bad as Trump. The trouble with calling a man evil is that it assumes he’s playing by the same rules … Continue readingIs Elon Musk Evil? –

The Billionaire’s Paradox

The Art of Saying Nothing

Anything you say can and will be used against you—not just in a court of law, but in the grand tribunal of life where jealous hearts and scheming minds are always listening. Believe it or not, the world is brimming with people who’d rather see your ship sink than sail smoothly into prosperity. Some, out of sheer envy, will try to clip your wings just to keep you grounded. Others? Well, they won’t stop at mere sabotage—they’ll set fire to the whole barn just to make sure you never get a horse to ride. The less they know, the … Continue readingThe Art of Saying Nothing

Day. 27 – Invest in Yourself—

You Are Your Greatest Asset

Everyone is  always looking for the next best thing to invest in—stocks, real estate, Bitcoin, even a questionable “can’t-miss” opportunity from their cousin who’s “in the know.” But the one investment that never crashes, never devalues, and pays dividends for life? Yourself. Now, I ain’t saying money’s unimportant. It pays for a roof over your head and a hot meal on the table, and those are mighty fine things. But if you spend all your time chasing dollars while neglecting your mind, body, and soul, you’re just a rich fool waiting to fall flat on your face. The truth … Continue readingDay. 27 – Invest in Yourself—

You Are Your Greatest Asset

Mastering AI: Take Control Before It Takes Over your Job

The future isn’t coming—it’s already here, knocking on your door like an Amazon package you don’t remember ordering. AI isn’t some distant sci-fi fantasy; it’s the biggest shift since the internet, and if you’re not paying attention, you’re about to get left behind. Now, you don’t have to be a tech genius to make AI work for you. You just need curiosity, a little common sense, and the willingness to ask the right questions. AI is like a power tool—give it to someone who knows what they’re doing, and they build a masterpiece. Give it to someone who doesn’t, … Continue readingMastering AI: Take Control Before It Takes Over your Job

Why Men in Relationships Turn Off the Switch

Now, if there’s one thing I’ve learned from watching men stumble through life, it’s that they have an uncanny  ability to lose interest in the very things they once swore would make them the happiest creatures on God’s green earth. It’s as if they get to the peak of the mountain, take in the view, and then decide the whole climb was an elaborate misunderstanding. So, when a man in a relationship flips the switch and suddenly treats bedroom gymnastics with the same enthusiasm he has for a trip to the dentist, folks start scratching their heads. Some say … Continue readingWhy Men in Relationships Turn Off the Switch

The Eternal Tug-of-War Between Men and Women

“The trouble isn’t that there isn’t good men and good women, The trouble is that they don’t quite understand what the other one wants.” Men and women have been waltzing around the same old problems since the first caveman grunted at his lady about where his mammoth bones had gone. The only difference today is that we’ve added social media, feminism, and a world of dating apps to complicate the dance. But at its core, a simple truth remains: men crave respect, and women crave love. Yet somewhere along the way, we forgot that. Women started acting like bosses, … Continue readingThe Eternal Tug-of-War Between Men and Women

Day. 26 – Choose Your Circle Wisely— You Become Who You Surround Yourself With

The Friend Audit: Who Do You Want to Be in 5 Years? Take a moment and make a list of all your friends—the people you spend the most time with, the ones who influence your thoughts, habits, and mindset. Now, ask yourself: If I became like them in five years, would I be happy with that? Do they inspire me, push me, and challenge me to be better? Are they living the kind of life I want—professionally, personally, emotionally? Do they align with my values, goals, and aspirations? Who, among them, do I truly admire? 💡 No judgment—just awareness. … Continue readingDay. 26 – Choose Your Circle Wisely— You Become Who You Surround Yourself With

Human – AI Timeline –

Our Future without US

THE FUTURE IS NOW! – read the end… 1950s–1960s – Early Foundations 1956 – The term “Artificial Intelligence” coined at Dartmouth Conference. 1957 – Launch of Sputnik inspires development of global communication networks. 1958 – Advanced Research Projects Agency (ARPA) established by the U.S. 1959 – Development of integrated circuits, paving the way for modern computing. 1960 – First practical laser invented, later critical for fiber optics. 1961 – Introduction of time-sharing computer systems. 1962 – Concept of packet switching proposed by Paul Baran. 1963 – ASCII developed for electronic communication. 1964 – Douglas Engelbart invents the computer mouse. … Continue readingHuman – AI Timeline –

Our Future without US

AI in your pocket

This is a long post, but bear with me—it will all come together and be worth it in the end. The setup takes a few paragraphs since this is all about technology that most people have never seen or don’t remember.   The Year Was 1988 I was a Yuppie (see definition below). I had the required car, an Armani suit, and even a Montblanc pen. I had also recently acquired a Motorola DynaTAC 8000X with an extended battery and car charger for about $2,000. Originally released in 1983 for $4,000, this was a steal at half price just … Continue readingAI in your pocket

The Madness of the Crowd: Reflection on CROWDTHINK and the Age of Amplified Insanity

Friedrich Nietzsche said, “In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.” It’s a haunting observation that feels just as relevant today as it did over a century ago — perhaps even more. You ever notice how folks these days don’t just have opinions — they’ve got battle flags, marching songs, and a fully loaded cannon aimed at anyone who dares to think different? Used to be you could sit on a front porch, chew on a blade of grass, and disagree with your neighbor about politics, religion, or whether ketchup belongs … Continue readingThe Madness of the Crowd: Reflection on CROWDTHINK and the Age of Amplified Insanity

Day. 25 – Keep Learning—

The Moment You Stop Growing,

You Start Dying

The man who does not read has no advantage over the man who cannot read. The world’s moving 10x faster than just a decade ago, and if you’re not learning, you’re sinking. Never stop educating yourself. Read books, take courses, ask questions, and challenge your beliefs. The most successful people aren’t the ones who knew everything — they’re the ones who never stopped learning. The moment you think you’ve got life all figured out is the moment you start slipping backward. Stay curious, stay open-minded, and always be willing to grow. It’s funny how life works.At 6, you think … Continue readingDay. 25 – Keep Learning—

The Moment You Stop Growing,

You Start Dying

The Truth About Intimacy in Marriage: When Passion Fades and Why It Happens

Marriage is a curious thing — it starts off with fireworks and parades, and somewhere along the way, it turns into a committee meeting about whose turn it is to take out the trash. Why is it that a man and woman who once couldn’t keep their hands off each other end up treating intimacy like a chore list. Marriage, in its ideal form, ought to be a long conversation interrupted by moments of laughter, a bit of mischief, and perhaps, if the weather’s right, a kiss or two. But too many couples let the weather turn foul and … Continue readingThe Truth About Intimacy in Marriage: When Passion Fades and Why It Happens

The Power of Saying No — And the Best Negotiator I Ever Met

I’ve seen all kinds of negotiators in my life — silver-tongued salesmen, corporate lawyers who could argue a rock into a corner, and folks so slippery you’d swear they were coated in butter. But the best negotiator I ever met stood about 4 feet tall, wore sensible shoes, and could probably win a fistfight with a grizzly bear armed with nothing but her purse and a well-timed glare. Too many people think negotiation means haggling or making endless compromises. But sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is standing still and refusing to accept anything less than what’s … Continue readingThe Power of Saying No — And the Best Negotiator I Ever Met

Day. 24 – Learn to Say No—

Not Everyone Deserves Your Time

There’s a peculiar kind of fool in this world — the one who believes the only hands fit to run a business are their own. They believe being busy is the same thing as being important. They wear exhaustion like a badge of honor and think answering every email personally makes them the captain of their own ship. Truth is, if you’re the only one steering, swabbing the deck, and catching the rats, that ship’s sinking — and fast. The folks who actually get somewhere in life figure out pretty quick that the only way to make it big … Continue readingDay. 24 – Learn to Say No—

Not Everyone Deserves Your Time

DAY. 23 – You Are Enough—Believe It

Most folks spend half their lives convinced they’re missing something—some secret ingredient, some shiny certificate, or perhaps a telegram from fate itself saying, “You’ve made it.” Well, I hate to spoil the surprise, but you won’t find any of that. Not in a bottle, not on a diploma, and certainly not in the bottom of your morning coffee. The truth is, everything you’re looking for is already rattling around inside you. You were born enough—and if you’ve made it this far without setting yourself on fire or getting mistaken for furniture, I’d say you’re doing just fine. So, if … Continue readingDAY. 23 – You Are Enough—Believe It

Sometimes You Settle for Chicken over Lobster — And That’s Okay

The Art of Choosing What You Need Over What You Want (In Jobs, Relationships, and Careers) Life doesn’t always hand you the lobster dinner you had your heart set on. Sometimes, you get chicken. Plain, ordinary chicken. And whether you’re talking about your job, your relationships, or even your whole career path — learning how to appreciate the chicken while still dreaming of lobster might just be the secret to keeping your sanity intact. Don’t get me wrong — there’s nothing wrong with wanting lobster. Dream big, aim high, all that good stuff. But if today’s menu is chicken, … Continue readingSometimes You Settle for Chicken over Lobster — And That’s Okay

DAY. 22 – Nobody Expects You to Be Perfect—Just Consistent

Now, I  never met a perfect person, though I’ve come across a fair few who thought they were. Most of ‘em were about as pleasant to be around as a sack of manure on a hot day. See, perfection’s got a funny way of making folks insufferable—too busy polishing their halo to notice they’re stepping on everybody’s toes. Life ain’t a beauty contest, and it sure ain’t a spelling bee. It’s messy, unpredictable, and you’re gonna land in the mud a time or two. But nobody expects you to ride like a champion every time. What matters is you … Continue readingDAY. 22 – Nobody Expects You to Be Perfect—Just Consistent

Day. 21 – Women Are Attracted to Ambition More Than Looks

It’s a curious thing about men. They’ll spend hours flexing in front of a mirror, admiring their abs like they’ve just invented the wheel — all while their future sweetheart sits somewhere wishing they’d invent a plan instead. Now, I’ve got nothing against a fellow who wants to look good naked — Lord knows we all want to be admired in our birthday suit — but the truth is, a six-pack ain’t worth a wooden nickel if there’s nothing under it but air and daydreams. A woman might glance at a fine set of abs, the way you glance … Continue readingDay. 21 – Women Are Attracted to Ambition More Than Looks

The Lost Art of Joy: How to Find It Before You Forget It Ever Existed

There are two kinds of people in this world: those who think they’re perfectly happy and those who have the good sense to admit they aren’t. The trouble is, most folks don’t lose their joy all at once, the way you lose your hat driving your convertible. No, it tends to slip away slow — like a cat slinking off a porch when no one’s looking, until one day you realize the house feels eerily quiet, and you can’t quite put your finger on why. What follows ain’t a cure-all, mind you. It’s more of a search party for … Continue readingThe Lost Art of Joy: How to Find It Before You Forget It Ever Existed

The Way it is Because it is the Way We Are: Infidelity, and the Truth We Don’t Want to Admit

You ever notice how folks treat marriage like it’s some kind of magic spell — sprinkle a little rice, slap on a ring, and suddenly two perfectly flawed human beings are supposed to turn into saints? That’s a fine bit of storytelling, right up there with gold at the end of the rainbow and politicians with honest smiles. Truth is, marriage ain’t so much a love story as it is a lifelong poker game where both players keep trying to figure out if they’re holding the winning hand or about to be played for a fool. And nowhere is … Continue readingThe Way it is Because it is the Way We Are: Infidelity, and the Truth We Don’t Want to Admit

Day. 20 – The Internet is Noisy —

Choose Your Mentors Wisely

The trouble with the internet isn’t that there’s too much advice — it’s that there’s too much bad advice, and it’s wearing a top hat and calling itself an expert. Back in my day, fools stood on soapboxes in the town square. Now they have podcasts, online courses, and viral TikToks, all eager to tell you how to get rich, get famous, or get happy — usually in under 30 days. Now, I’ve got nothing against ambition, but you’d do well to remember that a loud voice and a big following ain’t the same thing as wisdom. A wise … Continue readingDay. 20 – The Internet is Noisy —

Choose Your Mentors Wisely

The Unforgiving Table:

A Masterclass in Negotiation and the Hard Lessons of Power

If there’s one thing folks ought to learn before they sit down at a table with their so-called enemies, it’s this: The truth’s got nothing to do with it. What matters is who’s holding the bigger stick and how tired their arm is from holding it. Negotiation’s not some Sunday school lesson on right and wrong. It’s a poker game with blood in the pot. The man who thinks his righteousness will carry the day will lose to the man who knows exactly how much of his own skin he’s willing to sell off to walk away breathing. The … Continue readingThe Unforgiving Table:

A Masterclass in Negotiation and the Hard Lessons of Power

Putin is Evil, Not Stupid

You can measure a man’s intelligence by the size of the mess he can make and still convince half the world he’s the victim. Some men stumble into trouble like a drunk into a ditch. Others lay the road, sell the tickets, and charge admission to watch the wreck — and they call that leadership. That’s Vladimir Putin. A man clever enough to know how to start a fire, and evil enough to make sure you burn in it first. Putin is as evil as Hitler and smarted than Napoleon. The problem with the world isn’t that it’s run … Continue readingPutin is Evil, Not Stupid