Look at then in the eyes and slowly say your line. Then Whisper the punch line. Laugh Get ready to walk away. Turn around Look at then half away and watch them come to you. CLOSE THE DEAL! This is how to buy a car or anything thing that is negotiate like dating.
Go slow, build up the tension, tease not poke. Don’t not go too fast or to Quickly Build up the speed and pressure slowly, but never stop. When you find something that works, keep doing the same thing, stay in the rhythm. Only change your process if you get input that change is require. Learn to read the feedback. Commit to the process. If things are working, just relax the emotional tensions but never the rhythm. Don’t not let the insecurities get it their heads. Do not talk too much. Enjoy the process never worry about how long it … Continue readingHow to make Love or sell a Deal… same thing
If you have been brutally broken, but still have the courage to be gentle to others then you deserve a love deeper than the ocean itself. Nikita Gill
Ask yourself a question, and be super honest. “What would you do if you weren’t afraid?” “Everything you want is on the other side of fear.”
“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate country, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things..” Henry David Thoreau Imagine being on your death bed, and standing around you is the ghost of the dreams, the … Continue readingIt is time for me!
The story of Katrina. Foreword In her youth, Katrina was a sprightly thing. But, fate being the fickle critter that it is, had an accident in store for her. Though it left her with physical scars, the emotional scars ran deeper than a Mississippi riverbed. As she grew older, the weight of the world began to bear down on her. Her teenage years were a whirlwind of emotions, and her high school years were no picnic. She tried her hand at college, but dealing with multiple personalities nearly broke her. The poor thing’s dreams were quashed by fear and … Continue readingThe story of Katrina… work in progress
many business
large and small make.
Having too many of the wrong products. Having too many ideas at one time. Treating employees too well or too badly. Not changing or evolving over time. Not growing a business all the time. Micromanaging the people not the results. Not establishing realistic goals Not listening to the customers, employees and marketplace. Spending too much time and money redoing the same thing. 10. Not enjoying your life, job and business.
We are prisoners of repeating history. We are victims over an over. Blameless perhaps because we follow the same path but tragic just the same. We have to break the chains that bind us to poverty, failed relationships, unsatisfying jobs and on a global scale war, poverty, hunger and every other malice. So why do we repeat the same wrong time after time. It has to do with being human. We all remember the power and acceleration of a fast car, we don’t remember the bad fuel economy or other problems. We must all think before we react again….
Today -Listen to life – enjoy a song, a whisper, a sunset, a piece of sushi, a kiss, a cup of wine – enjoy your heart. Disconnect from traffic, work and your otherwise hectic life. Savor the moments – follow your passions. Anyone want to go skydiving next week? Serious let me know More original photos like this available at my Fine Art America Shop – Get a mouse them.
I must confess that I fear nearly everything until I discover that I really fear nothing. That is the day I grow a few millimeters more as human being. That first kiss is the scariest ever! The second kiss is better. But every kiss is different and brings new challenges that never goes away, not even after kissing through a thousand nights I don’t blame or forgive; myself or others. I also don’t believe that any creature, earthly or divine can judge anyone. I only try to understand everyone I am not religious, but I do respect, … Continue readingI must confess
Sometimes, a whisper speaks louder than a scream. A whisper, like a kiss, is less about force and more about timing It is more about intent than substance. What do you long to hear in a whisper? A melody of lovely thoughts, a symphony of passions, or perhaps the unspoken truths of your deepest self? Are you surrounded by people, yet feel alone? Remember this… It doesn’t matter- nothing matters In the arms of someone you love, even the softest whisper can halt time itself. In that fleeting moment, the world stops, and nothing else matters except the connection … Continue readingThe Power of a Whisper
Danger this is the first chapter and still needs editing. This is a rough draft We all die and are born again. So we are taught. So we hope. These are the life and times of Toby Brown, who died a thousand times in a lifetime and keep coming back for more. That seems to be what we all seem to do. A little death here, a bigger death there. TB as his few friends call him, has never be one to follow the pack. He had carved his own road through the forest. He has always … Continue readingA New Life for Toby Brown
Life flying by so fast. Hold on tight. One day your in school the next day your married. The years we need for ourselves gone. Looking forward to time together – time alone. Little ones growing up so fast. Doing alright , thought we be better off. Enjoy life everyday, you live longer that way. You never get back missed opportunity. Fear of the unknown will paralyze you. People don’t change, just the day to day stuff. Hold on tight another bump is coming. Took the smoothest road sometimes, should have kept off it. Gave up on life a … Continue readingEnjoy the ride.
The world conspire against you or with you, the choice is yours. When it looks like the world is conspiring with us. We have to take the advantage. – Paulo Coelho Your life is full of choices, many are not so clear. Like picking a religion, you come in with some preconceived notions. Are you going to keep the religion of your parents or are you going to find your own path. Do you trust in faith or do you forge your own path by your own thought processes. How much do you let your peers influences you?
Butterflies start as caterpillars and so do most people know. What most people forget is that it is a long trip for the caterpillar before it can climb the tree and makes it cocoon. Many don’t make it. Many don’t have the strength, courage or whatever it takes them to make it. Those that do, have to struggle some more, and eventually they do make it. The opening of the cocoon and spreading their wings depends new courage again, and they do it. And by doing it they fulfill their destiny. Caterpillar in the tree, who will you be … Continue readingAdolescence
A fool believes that everyone loves him, That everyone is good intentioned That everyone is a fool like him They believe they invented something new or that people will treat him different A fool is always at holiday Seldom realizing the truth of his predicament Happy to live life as a lie Oh yeah he is the movie star Oh yeah everyone laughs at his joke Oh yeah everyone finds him attractive A fool believes that all that is fleeting is forever and everything that is forever is just a point in time A fool is not deter by … Continue readingWhat a fool believes…
6 billion people on earth 5 billion don’t know the world spins 4 billion don’t know that they should have rights 3 billion can’t or wont read a book 2 billion live in total poverty 1 billion don’t care about anything There are 300 million people in USA 50% of the registered voters voted at last election 50% of High school students won’t graduate high school 50% of college students will never finish 50% of people in this country will be functionally obsolete in 10 years 90% of the people reading this don’t care Yeah, funny isn’t it? This … Continue readingIgnorance is never funny
2023 Version The bright-eyed lass stared at her glowing screen, Longing for the sound of the click so keen. A prospective neighbor, perhaps a long-lost friend, A connection so strong, it might never end. She tended her farm, crops growing tall, Hoping that click would come to call. Night after night, she lay in bed, Anxiously waiting, not daring to rest her head. Many clicks came, but none held the key, To unlock the door to her destiny. She knew not what she sought, But the click that mattered, she knew not. Yet still, he haunted her every night, … Continue readingA farmville terrorists – A comment on Modern Life
Everyone assumes that people cannot have a spiritual relationship with another human being. Since people are flesh and blood then all relationships must be that way. So, they anthropomorphize their relationship with spirits, angels, dead love ones and all kinds of figments of their imaginations. They don’t realize that a spiritual relationship is possible with others. There are several prerequisites for a spiritual relationship 1. Intentions – Preconceive interests, we all have them 2. Free Will – Can we really allow people to do not what we want. 3. Do not judge – We will always judge, by … Continue readingA spiritual relationship…
Religion, God and mankind…. Truths, half-truths and lies… Friday, November 20, 2009 at 4:53pm - copyright 2009, Tony Lester Thoughts to ponder from a very favorite song. Whether you agree or not… Imagine for a moment then lets discuss. IMAGINE Imagine there’s no heaven It’s easy if you try No hell below us Above us only sky Imagine all the people Living for today Imagine there’s no country It isn’t hard to do Nothing to kill or die for And no religion, too Imagine all the people Living life in peace You may say I’m a dreamer But I’m not … Continue readingOn Religion!
Happiness is Your Responsibility—No One Else’s Happiness like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder. Learn to be happy with less, and you will find endless happiness. Yes, it is this simple…. Ok, here is more… Happiness is Your Responsibility—No One Else’s “Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be,” said a wise man once, and he wasn’t wrong. People spend their lives waiting for happiness to be delivered to them like a package from the heavens, only to find out the delivery service doesn’t … Continue readingDAY. 10 – Happiness is Your Responsibility—No One Else’s
Making money is easy. Find something people want. Make it or do it better. Repeat it. Make it better Repeat it. Multiply it. Make it better. Teach others how to do it. Cash out Find something else…. Start in step 1 again What would rather have; a million dollars, a dollar that increase by a dollar a day, or a penny constantly duplicates so get 100% gain everyday. Many would pick the million dollars, but the real winner is the magic penny. In 31 days it would be more than a million. In 32 days it would be … Continue readingOn Making Money – Easy 10 Step plan
A Haitian Experience People surviving, people living their own dreams. Some full of passions, some passionless. People do Facebook, negotiate prices on purses while outside others beg for anything. Garbage everywhere and not a can in sight. Pastries by the bag, people begging, people making deals. Pottery and purses. Buy here, pay there Men in suits speak four languages, others wonder why. Art for sale, so are people’s dreams Undecided women shopping, Others wanting the sale The heat of the day increases, People are getting tired All kinds of machines. Broken cars being fixed on the roadway. Toto didn’t … Continue readingON TRAVELING
I saw a little girl walking down the street carrying her whole life in her head. I asked others for her name, they knew her only as ti madam. On second glance she was not a girl but a woman. She had all the desires of a girl and the passions of tigress. She was trapped by her circumstance, a creature of circumstance. Still a bird without flight, a butterfly in a cocoon, a young bribe without a lover. Her black waist long hair flowing down the mountains, an unexplored country, hidden in mystery. How I desire to explore … Continue readingHaiti
Honesty is such a gray word. One might expect something as simple and virtuous as honesty to be clean-cut, black or white, solid as a preacher’s handshake. But we don’t live in a black-and-white world. All our perceptions are blurred, smudged in shades of gray like an overused pencil eraser. True honesty—pure, unadulterated truth—would be a light too blinding, too hot, for our tender souls to endure. It would sear us to the core, leave us naked and trembling like sinners on judgment day. And so we compromise. A little dishonesty here, a dab of self-delusion there, like smudges … Continue readingExplorations in Honesty. The Bright, Blinding Beast
WIN / WIN in everything…. The greatest tool to being successful is the attitude of WIN/WIN. I am sure you have read or heard something about the concept. Let me expand on it more and let me expand on the concept of Win/Lose and Lose/Win. There is also LOSE/LOSE but no one wants that. In WIN/WIN both parties feel that they are winning in the relationship. Both are relatively happy, and both are working for that WIN/WIN feeling. In a WIN/LOSE, one party is purposely trying to win at all cost over the other parties, there is a form … Continue readingWIN / WIN in everything….
Things you probably don’t know about me…. I get up in the middle of the night to write on my computer and don’t really sleep much I love to paint, and sculpt in many different mediums. Never said I was any good I used to be the total nerd and wore glasses to look older so people would respect me. I taught classes at a College once… I got tired of saying same thing over and over again. I am much more open in my writings than in person, I tend to go a little more over the top … Continue readingConfessions of some of my deepest thoughts
Not all women are the same — especially if they still haven’t gone through that first love experience. But this does not mean you still can’t flirt with that beautiful twenty one year old red head that works in the same building as you. Some young women will entertain the idea of dating an older man, while others will diplomatically pass up the invitation. But if you want to improve your chances, then you should keep these tips in mind: Be a friend: The last thing a young woman needs is a man that wants what every other boy … Continue readingHOW TO SEDUCE HER
Bet you can’t get half-way down this list without discovering that you are afraid of at least a few of these. Ablutophobia- Fear of washing or bathing. Acarophobia- Fear of itching or of the insects that cause itching. Acerophobia- Fear of sourness. Achluophobia- Fear of darkness. Acousticophobia- Fear of noise. Acrophobia- Fear of heights. Aerophobia- Fear of drafts, air swallowing, or airbourne noxious substances. Aeroacrophobia- Fear of open high places. Aeronausiphobia- Fear of vomiting secondary to airsickness. Agateophobia- Fear of insanity. Agliophobia- Fear of pain. Agoraphobia- Fear of open spaces or of being in crowded, public places like markets. … Continue readingPHOBIAS
Ode to a Clownfish – Thou still unravish’d bride of quietness, With silence and slow time, Who canst thou express A flowery tale more sweetly than rhyme: What legends haunt about thy thoughts Of deities or mortals, or of both, In Miami or the island seas What men or gods are these? What maidens loth? What mad pursuit? What struggle to escape? What wild ecstasy? What passions? Heard melodies are sweet, but those unheard Are sweeter: therefore, play on; Not to the sensual ear, but, more endear’d, Fair youth, beneath the trees, thou canst not leave Thy song, nor … Continue readingOde to a Clownfish
The path to accomplishing anything and everything… Begin with the end in mind, work backwards. In the beginning say yes to everything. Do everything you want. Build a foundation then expand. Eliminate personal history. Celebrate your excellence. Connect, understand, share, accept everyone. Act with detachment, react to nothing. Pay attention to your inner voice. Eliminate your fears and limiting beliefs. Explore to abandon, Violate the appropriate. Seek pleasure and not pain. Become spontaneous, finding balance. Practice confidentiality, celebrate silence. Check your ego, advance your empathy. Eliminate personal censorship, drop expectations. Harm no one, harm nothing at all. Take almost … Continue readingPath to Everything
A work in progress in two languages give me a little Bite only a small bite a little bitty bit give me a little bite here and there and everywhere give me a small bite in your ears on your neck a small bite in every inch of your arms in every inch of your legs give me bite, a very gentle bite in your lips that reaches all the way to your breasts let me bite those small massitas that you are always hiding give me a little Bite only a small … Continue readingMordida
Enjoy the trip everyone… Follow your passions wherever they take you.
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